Tuesday, July 19, 2011

God Winks: Mae's Story (Part 10)

I would like to share with you a teammate's multiple-part blog about part of what God is doing here in Thailand. For more of her blogs, check out emilytuttle.theworldrace.org.


Sometimes life on the World Race is messy (for more on this see my previous blog). Sometimes things don't make sense, we can't see how the work that we're doing is helping anyone, and we just have to believe that we are planting seeds that someone else will water and see the fruit of. We often get frustrated that we can't see the bigger purpose behind the ministry we're doing. We fail to see the big chain that we're only a small link in. But sometimes all the links fall into place. Occasionally all the loose threads get tied up into a nice bow, and we get to see how God's will was at work all along. Whenever God lets us be part of these moments of clarity, and we get to see into his mind for a second, we call it a "God wink." One of my teammates told us about a book she read that described a crowded holiday dinner table. The narrator felt alone in the crowd until her mother looked down the table, past all the talking people, and winked at her. She felt loved and valued, and likened this to the way that God sometimes winks at us to remind us that He loves us, that he remembers that we're here, and that he has a plan for our lives. This month was one giant God wink, so I want to tell you about all the "coincidences" that led to the final result of our team getting to be on the front lines of helping two girls find freedom.



  • Over the past few months I have come to love Isaiah 61. It is a chapter about being called and anointed to help people heal, to release them from darkness, and to set them free. I'm not sure exactly what I'm going to do with my life, but I know that no matter where I go I want to help people feel loved and find freedom. Our Real Life participant, Kayla, who joined our team for this month, also loves this chapter. Her blog is even titled "Beauty for ashes," which is taken from Isaiah 61. We found out that Isaiah 61:1 is also the theme verse for Lighthouse in Action. This month we literally got to live out this verse, and it was incredible.
  • When Mae was lost and could not find WonGen Cafe, she asked people on the street where it was. No one knew, and she was about to give up. Finally, she asked one more person and they pulled a small flyer for WonGen out of their bag. It was a flyer that my other teammates had given that person because while I was sitting at the cafe praying that Mae would find it, they were across the street at the university handing out advertisement flyers for WonGen. Out of the 35,000 students at Chiang Mai University, Mae asked one of the couple hundred who my teammates had talked to, and she was directed to the place where she could find freedom.
  • Originally, Kayla was upset because she could not communicate with Ning because Ning only spoke Burmese and our translator spoke English and Thai. Kayla was unable to use words to help Ning, but had to rely instead on showing her love through her actions. In the end, Burmese is what allowed Mae and Ning to plan their exit from the bar in the bar, only a few feet away from the madam who only spoke English and Thai. Because Kayla was faithful to keep loving Ning in spite of a seemingly impossible language barrier, she was able to see that it was all part of God's plan for Ning.
  • Once we realized that the girls were going to need to acquire legal papers to live and work in Thailand, Emmi asked us to pray that she could learn how that process worked quickly. She had never legalized a girl before, and did not know what steps to take. As a team we prayed that literally out of nowhere someone would show up to help her. The next morning she was sitting in WonGen and a man she did not know walked in. He was new to Chiang Mai, and was looking for a place to stay. Someone had told him that Emmi might be able to help him, so he came to WonGen. As they talked she learned that he was a Shan man from the ethnic group in Burma, and he had become legal in Thailand recently. She got excited and asked him if he could explain the process to her. He literally wrote her out a step-by-step guide to legalizing Burmese immigrants. Exactly what we prayed for.
  • We had also been praying that someone would show up to help Emmi find a place to put Ning's ten year old brother. Emmi realized that she already had a meeting scheduled last weekend with a woman who runs a children's home outside of Chiang Mai. They met, and because he isn't legal yet, they can't take him, but the woman will be a great resource to help Emmi find a place for him to live once he is legal.
  • Emmi grew up in a Christian orphanage in northern Thailand after her father murdered her mother. She was raised by a missionary couple, and they were like her parents. Growing up, she would hear about their friend named Eric. Last week Eric showed back up in Emmi's life. It turns out that he runs a home for people with HIV outside of Chiang Mai, and he is going to be helping advise Emmi on how to best care for Mae. Mae might also eventually be able to help out at the home. 
  • When Emmi went to the immigration office the other day to register the cafe as a place where illegal people can work, she was informed that this year in Thailand the government has decided that the only time that illegal people can apply for legal status is between June 15-July 13. This entire process is happening for Mae and Ning right in the middle of that time. God's timing is perfect.
  • Kayla, our Real Lifer, who is only with us for one month and could have been assigned to any World Race team anywhere, is passionate about ending human trafficking. She knows she is called to help buy girls out of sex slavery and establish safe houses where they can live. To accomplish this, she and a friend recently are starting their own non-profit organization, and will be raising money. They were looking for a reputable organization or ministry to support where they know that the money will be used to do the work they believe in. One of Emmi's greatest desires is to open a safe house in Chiang Mai, but she does not have the money for it yet. She mentioned this to us in the course of our conversations about the funding needed to free Mae and Ning. Kayla got excited and explained to her that she will meet with her co-founder when she gets back to the States, and they will try to start funding Lighthouse in Action so that there will be money waiting in a fund to buy girls out, pay their initial expenses and legal fees, and put them in a safe house. Kayla could have been sent anywhere in the world with her passions and resources, but she was sent with us to Emmi who needed her. 

These were just some of the cool things that happened this month to orchestrate all that God has done. We are so excited to have been blessed to be part of this story, and we ask for continued prayer and support for Emmi, Lighthouse in Action, and Mae and Ning and their families. Mae emailed me last night, and she is happily settled at Lighthouse beginning her Bible study. Ning still needs a lot of prayer, as her husband showing up on the scene is complicating things for her. They also both still need financial support. If you would like to partner with us to change their lives, please see my previous blog. Thank you SO MUCH for being part of this amazing story with your prayers and support! God uses all things to work together to accomplish his will, as we have learned this month.

"The Spirit of the sovereign Lord is on me,
because the Lord has anointed me
to proclaim good news to the poor.
He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted,
to proclaim freedom for the captives
and release from darkness for the prisoners."
Isaiah 61:1

Current Update: Mae's Story (Part 9)

I would like to share with you a teammate's multiple-part blog about part of what God is doing here in Thailand. For more of her blogs, check out emilytuttle.theworldrace.org.




Before you read this, please make sure to read Parts 1-9 of Mae's Story. I know it's long, but I promise it's worth it to read the whole thing in order. We are leaving Bangkok in a couple hours to fly to Kenya, so I'm going to have to keep this shorter than I'd like, but I wanted to update everyone on where things are now for Mae and Ning and their journey to freedom. 

As I will explain in Part 10 of this story, God has been opening up huge doors and doing the impossible to make sure that Mae and Ning get new lives. They are both really special girls, and I can't wait to see where they are in a few months. Emmi, the founder of Lighthouse in Action, and I have been emailing back and forth since we left Chiang Mai so that our team can stay updated and keep praying for the most recent needs. I would like to invite all of you to pray, and if the Lord leads you, to continue to generously support Mae and Ning financially so that money never gets in the way of the next steps in their story. 

Since we left Chiang Mai, Emmi has had several meetings: one with the Tamar Center to get advice about how to help Mae treat her HIV, one with a Christian orphanage to see what to do to help Ning's little brother find a safe place to grow up, one with a woman who helps lead a ministry in Pattaya that does similar things on a larger scale, and one with the immigration office to register WonGen Cafe as a place that people without legal status in Thailand can work. These meetings have gone amazingly well from what she has told us. The Tamar Center offered her great advice. The orphanage could not take Ning's brother because he too is illegal, so Emmi has decided that when she petitions for Mae and Ning to become legal she will also petition for him. Hopefully after that they can find him a place in a good orphanage. The woman from the ministry in Pattaya helped a lot with knowing what steps to take next. And the meeting with immigration was truly God-ordained. Emmi found out that this year in Thailand the government has declared that it is only possible to petition for people's legal status between June 15-July 13...and we are right in the middle of that window. So hopefully this will mean that the process will be even faster than we had imagined. Emmi also plans to legalize another girl who a different World Race team helped rescue from the bars a few months ago. She is planning to come work with Lighthouse in Action as well.

As the girls' leases on their apartments expire on Friday and Emmi still doesn't have another place for them to live, they are going to move temporarily into the dorms above WonGen. Her plan for them for the month of July is to have Bible School students come and teach them about the Bible every morning, and then they will work in the afternoons. Mae will help clean the Lighthouse Guesthouse, which is where we stayed while we were in Chiang Mai. Ning will help in the coffee shop. Also, they will both learn to make jewelry that will be sold to help raise money to pay their salaries and to rescue more girls from the bars.

Emmi met with both girls today, and she says that Mae is very excited and ready to begin her new life. Emmi explained to her that this is all a result of God's love for her. She still doesn't quite believe yet, but she's very open to God's love. She's amazed and intrigued that God could love her after everything that her life has involved. Emmi explained that God's love is infinite and different from human love. There is a possibility that Mae could do one of YWAM's Discipleship Training Schools starting in September if she opens her heart to God. Please pray that his happens! As for Ning, her situation is a little more up in the air still because her husband, who is also illegal, has been kicked out of Bangkok and is back in Chiang Mai. He will now require legal papers too, so Emmi is trying to work out a place for them to stay and a way for that to happen.

Please keep praying for the following things:
  • The girls' medical exams to qualify for immigration status. Mae's HIV, if detected, could be a problem, so we are praying for complete healing.
  • Emmi to find a place for Ning's brother in a nice, Christian home or orphanage in the area so that Ning can see him but he doesn't have to be exposed to all the heartache surrounding the sex tourism industry.
  • The immigration paperwork to go through quickly, and for favor with the immigration agents. Often in Thailand bribery is required, but Emmi is not willing to pay bribes.
  • Emmi to find a more permanent place to house Mae and Ning and any other girls who are rescued. Emmi's dream is to turn the guesthouse into a safe-house, but that will require more money and staff members to run it.
  • The Bible study that the girls will be doing...pray that their hearts are open to learn about God and that they can see beyond their own low self-worth to understand his love for them.
  • A staff member to be found to disciple the girls and the resources to be able to pay this person's salary.
  • The situation between Ning and her husband to be worked out, and also for her to somehow be reunited with her 7 month old child who is in Burma.
  • Mae to be reunited eventually with her 14 and 16 year old daughters who are in Burma.
  • Continued financial support to pay Mae, Ning, Ning's little brother, Ning's husband, and the other girl's legal immigration fees, Mae's medical bills, and their salaries. So far God has provided amazingly. If everyone who has pledged money follows through on their gift, we have about $3,000 so far!! In less than a week! But there is still a great need here, so if you feel led to give, please follow the directions at the bottom of this blog.
Thank you so much for your interest in this story and in these girls' lives! They have become very dear to us, and although we are heading to Africa where blogs will be scarcer due to limited Internet, we are still very much invested in their lives and will continue to update you as we find out more about how they are doing. 


To give to the Transformation Fund that Emmi has set up to cover the expenses of getting Mae, Ning, and other girls like them out of sex slavery, follow these directions:

1. If you would like to give immediately and do not care about getting a tax break, you can use PayPal to donate. Log into your account, click on the "Send Money" tab, fill out the questions. If it asks for the country, choose Thailand, but make sure it's still in USD. If it asks what the money is for, choose "gift." Send it through Emmi's email address linked to her PayPal account, which is khanthanak@gmail.com

2. If you would like to support them on a monthly basis, or if you would like your gift to be tax deductible, you can give through YWAM's website. Go to www.ywamsf.org and go to "Donate." Follow the directions to give, and choose "other." Make sure you designate your gift to "Lighthouse in Action--Mae & Ning"

3. If you are Canadian and would like your gift to be tax deductible, mail checks to YWAM Donor Services, P.O. Box 57100, 2480 E Hastings Street, Vancouver BC V5K 5G6, Canada. Include a separate piece paper stating that the gift is for "Lighthouse in Action--Mae & Ning."

IMPORTANT:
No matter which way you choose to give, when you send in your gift PLEASE make sure to send an email to all three of the following email addresses, stating your name, the method of donating you used, and the amount that you gave. We need to keep track of the gifts to know how much money is on its way.
emily.tuttle@my.wheaton.edu
kayla_ferguson91@yahoo.com
lighthousethai@gmail.com